Grey’s Anatomy
From the beginning ofGrey ’s Anatomy , Meredith and Derek proved to have a groovy love story , and the chemistry they share was palpable from the moment they met . After all they went through , they were at long last one of the best couples on the show , even after Derek ’s untimely death .
Despite this , Meredith and Derek did many questionable things to each other , when they were together or not . Both of them could do selfishly at times , and this often resulted in each of them doing wrong and causing harm to the other in ways that were n’t easily bury .
Derek Didn’t Tell Meredith He Was Married
Addison ’s introduction toGrey ’s Anatomywas nothing short of iconic in the instalment " Who ’s Zoomin ' Who ? " and her entrance disrupted Meredith and Derek ’s human relationship massively . Throughout season 1 , while beginning a human relationship with Meredith , Derek overleap to tell her that he had a wife . Despite the fact that Addison had chisel on Derek , which caused to him leave New York , they were still married man and married woman .
Derek knew that he was quickly formulate belief for Meredith and that she was reciprocating those feelings , yet never told her about Addison , which would have definitely altered the trajectory of their kinship . It was a knavish move on Derek ’s part , and the shock of Addison ’s arrival made the news ten times backbreaking than it would have been had he just been true from the start .
Meredith Dated Finn
Season 2 was riotous for Derek and Meredith , and followed them as they formally broke up and Derek tried to get his wedlock with Addison back on caterpillar tread . Whilse Meredith and Derek were apart , their relationship was still very striking , particularly when Meredith begin up a love story with the veterinary that their domestic dog , Doc , move to .
Her relationship with Finnwas one of Meredith ’s sound romance onGrey ’s Anatomy , but that did n’t mean that it was n’t an unjust thing for her to do , consider that Derek frequently had to see them together . Meredith and Finn ’s human relationship only make more tune on Derek and Meredith ’s ongoing attempts at friendship , and also created more tension for Derek with Addison .
Derek Criticized Meredith For Being Single
Derek often act impetuously when he was envious , and this was particularly genuine when it came to Meredith . Having already broken up , Meredith and Derek tried to become friend with each other , with Derek even prompting Meredith to tell him why there was tautness with her friends as she had slept with George .
The news of Meredith ’s tryst with George , pair with the revelation that Meredith was now dating Finn , make Derek to act whole irrationally , which resulted in a massive argument between the two . Derek crudely suggest that Alex would be the next person Meredith would sleep with , as he too slept with a lot of other people . It was a het moment , and showcased just how unfairly Derek treated her when he was riddled with green-eyed monster .
Meredith Shut Derek Out
Meredith was notorious for shutting other multitude out when things go tough in her personal life sentence , and this was no different when it came to Derek . Despite the two seeming like they had worked through their issues , Meredith continued to push him away throughout season 3 .
Most notably , Meredith decline Derek ’s benignity when she was fight after her Mother ’s rough words in " Wishin ' and Hopin ' , " and in the narrative arc following , even when she was so obviously lose . Meredith ’s penchant for wallow in her dark alone often alienate her from her friends , and the same happen with Derek . Despite his reiterate attempts to support Meredith , she pushed him away and thus , the onward motion they had made in trust each other again became fractured .
Derek Gave Up On Meredith
Despite fighting relentlessly to be with Meredith throughout season 3 , Derek seemed to lose all hope in their kinship , and at long last pay up on her in her meter of demand . Her relationship with her father was one of thebiggest obstacles Meredith face onGrey ’s Anatomy , and Susan ’s death in time of year 3 only made it more complicated and touch on her and Derek ’s human relationship massively .
While Meredith was understandably distraught , she sought to lean on her friend rather than Derek , which left him feel freeze off by her , and that she did n’t trust him . With this , Derek selfishly made Meredith ’s heartache about their relationship , and took her personal troubles as a concrete sign that she did n’t trust him . This finally led to him giving her an ultimatum on whether she actually wanted to be with him in " Did n’t We Almost Have It All ? " when he should have been more understanding as to what she was going through .
Meredith Took Zola
Meredith ’s meddling of Derek ’s clinical trial leave many ramifications for her to deal with , but none more pregnant than the melodic phrase it put on her and Derek ’s relationship and thus , their acceptation of Zola . The episodes " Free Falling , " and " She ’s Gone , " detailed the fallout of Meredith ’s actions , which conduce to Meredith taking drastic measures to keep Zola in her caution .
When Zola ’s borrowing counselor bring down the infirmary and sensed the tenuous country of Derek and Meredith ’s relationship , Meredith panicked and impetuously took Zola and hid , without telling anyone . While Meredith , with Cristina and Alex ’s help , managed to cover up her rash fault , it was haywire of Meredith to not tell Derek and cause him unnecessary trouble , even if they were fighting .
Derek Threw The Engagement Ring
Derek was understandably struggling at the clock time , as a surgical operation he had performed went wrong and his patient tragically cash in one’s chips . However , reckon all that he and Meredith had been through and all the time that he begrudge Meredith for pushing him away , it was faulty of him to do the same to her . hurl the battle ring while she watch was a rash and mean thing for him to do no matter what he was going through .
Derek Went Back On His Promise
Meredith and Derek were arguably one of the good couples onGrey ’s Anatomy , but by season 11 their human relationship had become tense and the cracks were beginning to show . Having promised Meredith to take a step back in his career so that she could concentrate on hers , Derek became resentful and withdrawn , and pressured Meredith to do something desirable with the time he had purportedly given her .
However , as Derek ’s attitude worsen , Meredith start out to lose her forbearance with him , which resulted in a bitter argument between the two in " jeopardy . " Derek ’s behavior both before and during the fight was selfish and , rather than give Meredith the fourth dimension she needed , induce her more stress , finally leading to Meredith telling him to go to DC anyway .
Meredith Messed With The Alzheimer’s Trial
The events at the end of time of year 7 were cataclysmic for Derek and Meredith ’s human relationship , after Meredith tampered with the clinical visitation Derek had started to help oneself people who brook with Alzheimer ’s , initially inspired by her female parent . While stress to insure Adele was given the drug and not the placebo , Meredith caused multiple problems with horrific consequences .
Despite her good intentions , Meredith ultimately ruin the validity of the trial , convey Derek blacklist from further research , and broke Derek ’s trust in her . Her action were impulsive , and caused a massive divide between her and Derek that went on for many instalment , and even threatened their borrowing of Zola .
Derek Kissed Someone Else
His unfaithfulness to Meredith in season 11 was undoubtedly one of theworst things Derek ever did onGrey ’s Anatomy . Before he had even gone to DC , Meredith and Derek had argued about the fate of their relationship , as Meredith did n’t want to just be following around after Derek as her Father had done with Ellis . In this same statement , she also express his kinship for ready people like him , highlight how he had charm her when she was an intern , and he was her superscript .
blue and behold , Derek seemed to do the same in DC with one of his research fellows , Renee , who instantly took a liking to Derek ’s charismatic way . Perhaps not unsurprisingly , Derek liked the attention he encounter from her , which eventually go to an embarrassing osculation . While Derek did arrest the candy kiss , it was still one of the most awful thing he did to Meredith , particularly when their relationship was already in a vital state .
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